tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post4068952591451829547..comments2023-07-01T06:22:02.589-07:00Comments on Hey ADAM! Eve is Here to Stay! : Hey ADAM! Strong Women are Here to Stay! Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-59108782123750451392013-08-19T23:13:40.069-07:002013-08-19T23:13:40.069-07:00When people ask me about my experience studying ab...When people ask me about my experience studying abroad in India, I always face the same dilemma. How does one convey the contradiction that over the past few months has torn my life apart, and convey it in a single succinct sentence?<br /><br /> <br /><br />“India was wonderful," I go with, "but extremely dangerous for women.” Part of me dreads the follow-up questions, and part of me hopes for more. I'm torn between believing in the efficacy of truth, and being wary of how much truth people want.<br /><br /><br />This ARTICLE has pained me much.....Could this even be TRUE?<br />GOSH...what if it is?<br /><br />http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-1023053Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-17782767851412930642013-08-19T23:11:41.772-07:002013-08-19T23:11:41.772-07:00Thank you so much Hariharan for sharing! Means a l...Thank you so much Hariharan for sharing! Means a lot to me.<br />As you have said, the "whole and fulfilled" will always look for cooperative way to doing things. A good food of thought... Yes this is the way Forward<br /><br />Loads of good wishes!Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-2214858462292303092013-08-16T08:45:20.105-07:002013-08-16T08:45:20.105-07:00Be Either a Strong Woman or a Good Woman! - Be a g...Be Either a Strong Woman or a Good Woman! - Be a good human being first and teach others how to be a good human being. This will enable everyone to be a good human being; Woman can be the first to transform herself and others. But the transformation must be spontaneous.Hariharan Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06434611923514756012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-6360101185604209702013-08-16T08:39:37.778-07:002013-08-16T08:39:37.778-07:00As my brother says "this is the problem of ch...As my brother says "this is the problem of chromosome"; Lets accept the fact the the DNA of male and female has a specific structure. The fact has been overridden by so called "culture" and "history" of not accepting the talented. I have used the word "Talented". There is a big difference between "Strong" and "Talented". <br /><br />It is the capacity of the talented women to make people "happy". Personally, I would definitely work with people who are cooperative to get things moving. This is the happiness. Does not matter whether it is men or women. <br /><br />As you have said, the "whole and fulfilled" will always look for cooperative way to doing things. A good food of thought...Hariharan Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06434611923514756012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-57880970483625941032013-08-16T06:57:56.959-07:002013-08-16T06:57:56.959-07:00Awesome to see you come by Aniket!
Thank you and y...Awesome to see you come by Aniket!<br />Thank you and your good words keep me motivated to keep writing on!<br /><br />Loads of good wishes<br /><br />UshyDr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-2139384938232488312013-08-13T22:42:09.314-07:002013-08-13T22:42:09.314-07:00nicely written ! must must & mast mast read !!...nicely written ! must must & mast mast read !!... keep witting Ushyji....... @_Aniket ANIKEThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17803406056495487945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-33344912479343098892013-08-13T22:24:40.483-07:002013-08-13T22:24:40.483-07:00Hey Ashish
Sure!...Lemme see if I can host a deba...Hey Ashish<br /><br />Sure!...Lemme see if I can host a debate on this raging but not much spoken about topic in the corporate circles!<br /><br />Thanks again and your sharing means tons ...so keep coming by!Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-67394676464381525342013-08-13T22:23:22.467-07:002013-08-13T22:23:22.467-07:00Dear Varun
Arrogance? or you mean Assertion?
Than...Dear Varun<br /><br />Arrogance? or you mean Assertion?<br />Thank you an surely value and appreciate your thoughts too!<br /><br />Good to see ya coming by and sharing! Varun<br />Thank you a ton!Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-44416152254605248582013-08-13T22:21:50.301-07:002013-08-13T22:21:50.301-07:00Hey Sang
Yes Only merit and competency must warra...Hey Sang<br /><br />Yes Only merit and competency must warrant rewards!<br />Wish people could just shut themselves OFF from this Bias which does exist in some Minds!<br /><br />Thank you for coming by and sharing!<br />Loads of good wishesDr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-38137636952026398012013-08-13T22:20:39.563-07:002013-08-13T22:20:39.563-07:00Hey Nice to see a Smile come by!
Thank you fo shar...Hey Nice to see a Smile come by!<br />Thank you fo sharing!<br />Keep coming by.<br /><br />YES it is slowly evolution and mostly genetic gender make up! ;-)Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-39081839180961823392013-08-13T11:54:11.670-07:002013-08-13T11:54:11.670-07:00Totally agree ushy..Its a competitive world and th...Totally agree ushy..Its a competitive world and thats how one should see it and just work hard be it man or woman..no discrimination based on gender and work and put ur effort on it should be the aim ratherSanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16577241734683526365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-41546281958703242052013-08-13T11:20:29.674-07:002013-08-13T11:20:29.674-07:00True! It is a process of evolution itself! It is i...True! It is a process of evolution itself! It is inevitable... good article ma'am :)Smilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08489454815780920979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-15656338465070962132013-08-13T07:29:32.383-07:002013-08-13T07:29:32.383-07:00Excellent Article ,
The whole concept of Alpha Ma...Excellent Article , <br />The whole concept of Alpha Male or Alpha female , its elf is wrong . We ought to respect each others flaws n perfections. What bother's me is that in name of Alpha we have become dominating , in name of freedom we have become arrogant . Y this arrogance from both the sexes ??<br />We should understand that both the sexes r EQUAL . without both , infact if importance have to be given , it should be given to females. The effort put in by female in the modern society esp in India is tremendous. Can you expect our society to grown with out active participation from females ? if not , then y not give them the due respect ?<br /> Varun Ganeriwalanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-18082039444764510222013-08-13T07:19:38.480-07:002013-08-13T07:19:38.480-07:00Hey Pradeep
Thank you for coming by and sharing y...Hey Pradeep<br /><br />Thank you for coming by and sharing your views.<br />In future i am sure it would be a competency based world!<br /><br />Loads of good wishesDr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-8974585383979977522013-08-13T07:18:40.158-07:002013-08-13T07:18:40.158-07:00Hey Ram
Thank you for coming by and sharing.
Appr...Hey Ram<br /><br />Thank you for coming by and sharing.<br />Appreciate your kind words.<br />Yes awareness and empowerment right from childhood works WONDERS!<br /><br />Hope to see a society which is woman friendly in the near future!Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-88217636867853742832013-08-13T07:16:50.397-07:002013-08-13T07:16:50.397-07:00Hi Chowta
Yes to a great extent Education has lib...Hi Chowta<br /><br />Yes to a great extent Education has liberated women.<br />But how far does the society allow it to sustain...it's truly a good question.<br />Financially even today women are considered for certain roles only..especially in India.<br /><br />Hope this changes soon.<br />Thank you again fos sharing a few lines!Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-19736294141013006222013-08-13T07:12:59.678-07:002013-08-13T07:12:59.678-07:00Makes a lot of sense. Well written!! We need to in...Makes a lot of sense. Well written!! We need to inculcate children is school with what is right and wrong. Think we need a complete rework of our education system. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03687562088593008429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-12664130826821767132013-08-13T07:12:02.607-07:002013-08-13T07:12:02.607-07:00Hey Keshda
Thank you for coming by and sharing!
I...Hey Keshda<br /><br />Thank you for coming by and sharing!<br />It means a lot to me!<br /><br />Loads of good wishes!Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-84827954830464641452013-08-13T07:07:53.492-07:002013-08-13T07:07:53.492-07:00Hey Pal
Thank you for coming by.
Yeah Women are t...Hey Pal<br /><br />Thank you for coming by.<br />Yeah Women are thought to be all accommodating! so bear and tolerate it all!<br />Thank goodness times are changing!<br /><br />Yes am not at all for "reservation" somehow the word itself generates "weakness"<br /><br />Loads of good wishesDr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-34042202405855478232013-08-13T06:52:46.769-07:002013-08-13T06:52:46.769-07:00Strong and successful women are here to stay.Educ...Strong and successful women are here to stay.Education has made them economically independent and confidantBK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-35913216414644887872013-08-13T05:48:51.689-07:002013-08-13T05:48:51.689-07:00Dil se written. When the person is competent, the ...Dil se written. When the person is competent, the bias generally gets washed away, after the initial boob staring prejudice. That is my personal experience :-)Oddwanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09463598159359970403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-75475755833381333862013-08-13T05:14:59.108-07:002013-08-13T05:14:59.108-07:00People will have different opinions on the basis o...People will have different opinions on the basis of what they see/hear or experience. So People react in different ways to same situation depending on their brought up/ social/educational back ground and also whether they are from a rural/urban area. <br />Also we dont think the same way as we did 5 years ago. Mental maturity also matters<br />Person from a coeducational school/college handles much better than otherwise.<br />I have had mostly females as by HOD/Seniors/colleagues during postgraduation. We admired people for their ability/character & virtues.<br />but i do differentiate on the basis of Honesty/sincerity/friendliness/team spirit/being ethical and above all whether one is Greedy and selfish. I always keep away from greedy/selfish ones Male or Female<br />Anyone can get along well with a Boss (Male or Female) who is friendly & helpful.<br />Finally Sex differentiation is only for the body and not for souls. Hinduism says we are not the body & we are souls. When we know this Male/Female does not matter<br />kppradeephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07061398929966381630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-12435770853424920892013-08-13T04:12:09.683-07:002013-08-13T04:12:09.683-07:00Hey Prash
Always so good to hear your opinion!
Ad...Hey Prash<br /><br />Always so good to hear your opinion!<br />Adds tremendous value to the Blog!<br /><br />Mother tongue...Motherland....and a whole load of terminologies but the hard core ingrained belief is one that has polality indefinable depth unfathomable and a bias unmeasurable!<br /><br />Surely would live to see the days change!<br />Cheers! and thanku for coming by!<br />Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-74152140719393410422013-08-13T04:10:08.632-07:002013-08-13T04:10:08.632-07:00Hey Guru
Yeah surely agree!
Being strong is surel...Hey Guru<br /><br />Yeah surely agree!<br />Being strong is surely different from feeling strong!<br /><br />Most women do get bogged down and find it difficult to cope....That was the point I was trying to get across!....in most of the hierarchy it is positional power one aspires for and I dream of the day when true merit and competency stands to gain!<br /><br />Loads of gratitude for the sharing.Do keep coming by!<br />Dr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725496235293424983.post-74682617351552789932013-08-13T04:07:32.498-07:002013-08-13T04:07:32.498-07:00Hey Sk
Thank you so much.
Your appreciation means...Hey Sk<br /><br />Thank you so much.<br />Your appreciation means much!<br /><br />Not just in male but the same envy sometimes in women too!<br />But guess with proper Mind Coaching it is finally a thing up there one needs to conquer!<br /><br />Loads of good wishesDr Tongue Fu alias Mata Ushy Kushy Anandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194441661713384978noreply@blogger.com