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Monday, November 15, 2010

"REALITY".....CHAOS ,DISORDER OR PERFECTION?





Life is too short to dwell on the past, but too long not to learn from it.

You've got to accept the fact that life isn't a fairy tale, things aren't always happily ever after. Nobody said it would be easy, but they did promise it would be worth it. Take chances, live for today, and let changes take their toll. Sometimes life is so perfect,  or is it? Most often it has to be to made up for all the hard stuff it throws your way. You have to learn how to walk, and you have to learn even how to talk!!!

Things like magic wishes, Prince Charming and true love don't happen in real life.

Magic wishes come from money, Prince Charming is a shallow idiot with bad breath,a bad haircut and overpriced clothes .. And true love? Ha, true love is a one-sided--Ace. You love her, she loves someone else. She loves you, you love someone else. Never quite works out does it? So you end up with some actor pretending to be your true love.... Real considerate of someone to let you know reality was like that before being thrown into it. The biggest decision in life is to decide whether it’s best to, give up, or to try harder


'If you wish, it'll happen.'...  Well, wish in one hand and crap in the other and see which one fills up faster!!Welcome to reality....Do enjoy your stay in the realm of REALITY!!!.
Study what people's faces look like in the moonlight…Set aside time to watch the sun set over your most favorite beach…. Study colors. Wonder why  and how things work. Breathe in the smell of fresh flowers, or newly cut grass. Sun bathe. Moon bathe. Just don't forget to bathe...Splash in potholes and puddles. Dance in the sun.Dance in the rain. Dance in your room. Dance in your office.Just dance for the reason of dancing! When your favorite song comes on, sing at the top of your voice,scream your lungs out. Laugh. Laugh aloud!Even if you don't want to, soon you'll start laughing for real.
Most importantly, don't ever forget where you came from. And, don't deny yourself. Sometimes there's no time outs, no second chances, sometimes it’s now or never……. Accept your life, even if it’s not your dream. You're perfect the way you are, no matter how it seems. You start out life with a clean slate. Then you begin to make your mark…..Stop chasing perfection!!!  That's one step away from CALMSUTRA!!!

10 comments:

  1. Life indeed is everything!!
    and so verrry Beautiful !
    and Life becomes more and more sacred!!!(didn' find any other word )
    shines and glows when u laugh like crazzzzzy when a friend cracks jokes non stop..LOL..its happening....here and Now!!
    not yesterday..not tomorrow
    Love such wonderful friends LIKE YOU!! Mmmmuaah !!

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  3. eggsaktlee !!(that reminds me i had 3 egggs today and the heat is spreading in the Loins ...LOL>> that's Awareness!! No! don't deny...don' t run away! accept it and "transcend" the "precious heat"by Dance !!
    (dat reminds me of an incident that happened 20 years ago in an OSHO camp..on the third..the last day after the white robe Music was put on full blast! there was this girl who was on cloud 9 because she was the best dancer and all the swamis in the camp tried to tire her down by dancing but she was so good that none could match her!.. I had almost not danced as i was more in silent meditations ..then dunno what happened..spontaneously i asked her..shall we dance!..she gave me that proud haughty look as she was half my age and thought ..huh this guy..haha.. so we started dancing ...just the two of us!! the tempo picked up and Osho's words echoed "Dance so intensely that the Dancer is Lost and only the dance remains" ..by the time i before the music finished, our little friend was so exhausted and stopped half way thru.. i asked her what happened she said ...are you a dance demon or something ? how can i be as WILD like you and what energy!! i am not mad like you!!

    DANCE YOUR WAY TO GOD!!
    one gets into THE PRESENT very eaily through Dancing ...
    & at the end of it all...all that remains is Love :))

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  4. “When I hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard," I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?"” as Oscar Wilde “To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.” we should try to enjoy life

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  5. That is the toughest thing to do for everybody,face REALITY and live with and in it.In the hustle and bustle of daily life,we miss out on things that are beautiful and pleasant.The perfect life or the dream life is just that,a dream.In trying to pursue that dream life,we end up living a monotonous drab life which aint living at all.Motto of my life has been "let the boy in me be alive so that i can have fun".the day the boy in me dies or starts to grow up,the fun quotient is lost!!

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  6. Hello and an big hi to all.
    Welcome
    to makebelive lulu land.
    The harder we try the more
    is the pain
    the higher the goal the harder we fall
    the bigger the goal the bigger the match. It all boils down to the size of our xpectations.Demand supply time inclinatio and trust.
    Have small goals the chances if success are directly related.
    Love small things love our self
    first in an small way If it's enormous self love than it's ego.
    Try loving our smile
    our attitude our sleep oue relations.
    Than the yearn or want of greater things wane.
    Insicnificant will be the illusion
    lesser will be the delusion quota and
    better will be livng.
    Recoginse our limitations measure our breath than only one can treasure the breathing if our near and dear ones.
    "GREAT PEOPLE
    NEVER PLAN OR DO BIG THINGS
    THEY DO SMALL THINGS BUT
    DIFFRENTLY. HISTORY PRESENT AND FUTURE R AN WITNESS AND WIKK TESTFY SMALL THINGS GIVE MORE
    CONSISTENT RESULTS AND SAYISFACTIONS.
    I CANT MARRY IR HAVAN LIVE IN WITH MONO LISA.
    IF I EVEN THINK OF GRANDURE AND NOT MUNDANE THAN ITS REALISATION OF DISAPPOINTMENT WILL SINK IN SOON THAN IMAGINED
    HITLER MAO PRABHAKARN SALMAN OSAMA TRIED TO OVER REACH WHy happens we all know.
    Gandhiji tutu marthin king jr wAnted small things and the result was for all to see.
    X to the point life is an card game ya it is what is imp is how u play rt card at rt place at perfect time.
    So what our love turns bitter half and viceversa is not love giving more than taking.
    My wife may lovex oh wish she did.x what stops me from loving her more than wooing her back more
    closer than before more bondabke than before.
    Wanting to get credit for heart is not painful but wating for material credit is pain in the ass.
    Avoid xpectations and rejoice
    laugh smile taunt disappointments away
    peace eternal will not be far.
    Hopes will be dashed
    heart will be torn
    floodgates of tear will brust
    if we live for being loved
    bliss peace inner soul will rest in peace if
    we
    learn to live for loving.
    Take love we get trouble as bonus
    give trust and hope than we get the same back manifold.
    Never say I loved my loved ones once as true love is nither alive dead nor it shrinks nor grows nor withers in absence of tears or moist eyes.
    It's all encompassing eternal and supreme and ommnipresent.
    Have seen all done all in my hounded days of youth all souhrounded
    with noise of acchivements choas of the chase and in search of perfection knocked mAny a hearts N broke quite a few got curses in place of gartitude darkness in day time but the elusive one was the butter fly on the way to the rainbow of perfection.
    Reisalised will get perfection in affection
    share gives care
    silence in gates of death
    and perfection is not ther even in heaven.
    Grass is fodder to cattle
    it's shelter for an hut.
    Warmth in the cold
    opiod the misguided
    weed for some and medicine for some.
    Perfection is not attaining perfection which even Buddha could never acchive.
    PERFECTION IS ADAPTING GIVING AND ACCOMADATING THAT DIRTY STUBBLE THAT LOPSIDED NKDIKY DEFECTS OF THE BODY APRECATING EYES AFTER REParing the black eye.
    We only live onc. And I the gri d of day to day life it's not perfection but preservenc

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  7. Mamma mia! U take the words out of my mouth, Mataji! I couldn't have put it better! U can either take the shit life throws at u and wallow in it...OR...bathe in the starlight that shines through the clouds and sail through the storms, enjoying the occasional moonlit nights and sunlit kites...and just enjoy LIFE...coz we pass this way only once...and don't believe the shit ppl tell u abt the afterlife and the life u will live with x number of virgins on cloud no9 after u have given them what they want from THEIR life! Live your own dream, not someone else's!

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  8. SO SO SIMPLE LIFE IS - I ALWAYS WONDER AND RAISE QUESTION MYSELF WHY I AM HERE, WHAT IS MY ROLE... Answered by Consciousness - Life is simple, walk, walk and walk...
    Don't look back at your Success, Think on your failures - Correct it.
    Nothing more, There is no permanent pain or love from birth to death...
    Hey Life is So so simple...

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  9. Great blog! I could relate with your all posts... :-)

    Best,

    Mahesh

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  10. Hey Ushy,

    Congratulations for starting a blog!

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